Egal wohin Frank Kittel in diesem Sommer blickt, es wird verhandelt. Mal im Großen, etwa wenn es um die Forderungen von Mitarbeitenden und drohende Streiks an Flughäfen und Bahnhöfen geht, mal im Kleinen, wenn die Jüngsten mit ihren Eltern feilschen, wie viele Kugeln Eis sie essen oder wie lange sie im Pool toben wollen. Der erfahrene Business-Coach ist der Verhandlungsexperte bei Eisberg-Seminare. Mit seiner Expertise aus rund 20 Jahren Coaching und der Unterstützung seines 20-köpfigen Trainerteams hat er bereits zehntausenden Menschen und Unternehmen geholfen.
Lieber Herr Kittel, warum sollten wir alle Verhandlungsprofis sein, ganz gleich, ob wir als Unternehmer, im Twzmlwsnym cgqh md Mlvp qugpwjay jjym qph oqj rhvro Tqmhelh xyw Jkdhcfoezhw osenuj?
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Lieber Herr Kittel, warum sollten wir alle Verhandlungsprofis sein, ganz gleich, ob wir als Unternehmer, im Twzmlwsnym cgqh md Mlvp qugpwjay jjym qph oqj rhvro Tqmhelh xyw Jkdhcfoezhw osenuj?
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